Picture this, it’s the first of
December and you are looking
at your calendar, there is still plenty of time to mail everything out
to your
loved ones. A strong breeze comes along and the pages of the calendar
are
ripped away, flying out of your reach! The calendar now reads December
21!
AHHHHHH!!!!! Please know we are/were thinking about you on Christmas.
You can
still read all about our exploits before the New Year…
Does the time pass as quickly for
everyone else as it does
for me? Everyone knows the old saying that it does as you get older.
And older
I am getting and discovering all the joys that come with age. This year
I've
decided there is wisdom in having children when younger. That way
menopause and
adolescence don't collide. The raging hormones here are like raging
bulls with
locked horns. Everyone is staying out of my way because guess who has
the
biggest horns in this household -- Mama does. You know the old
cliché of not
letting a bull loose in a china shop...(Actually, the crazy time only
lasted
for a few weeks but it felt a loooooot
longer!)
Poor Sam. He didn’t really want to got to Scout Camp
but
after living with Crazy Meno-Mom he couldn’t wait to leave. Then, he
had such a
great time that next year he wants to stay for the entire nine week
camp and be
a CIT—Counselor-in-Training.
It was a year of many transitions.
Sam turned 13 and is a
full-blown teenager, as if there was any doubt before. His height keeps
getting
higher and his voice lower. He is at the place in time when he answers
the
phone, the caller says, “Eva?” and Sam responds good-naturedly, “No,
this is
Sam. I’ll get my mom.” He takes it well. It won’t be long before it’ll
be no
problem telling the difference.
I hope all of you
have a friend that, when distance and time
come between you, and the opportunity comes to speak or see each other,
that it
is as if time stood still. The conversation is as if it had only been a
few
hours since you last spoke. It is a true connection of spirits that
have known
each other long before this world. One such friend of mine, Katie, died
this past
spring. Much too young, before her two daughters, husband, parents,
siblings,
and friends would choose to have her leave us. I had known Katie 28
years, only
three of those years were we in the same vicinity. But that didn’t
matter. I
loved her dearly through those years and will continue to love the
memories I
shared with her and of her. I am so glad I could fly back and see her.
It was
the only trip I made this year to visit with friends and family.
In addition to visiting with Kate and her
family, I also saw
Dianna, who is my longest friend, 36 years. Doesn’t seem possible. The
visit
coincided with my nephew David’s 1st birthday, I was really happy to be
there
for that and to visit with all my family. I got to see my nephew
Jeremy’s
daughter, Olivia, for the first time. It was good to see Jeremy being
such a
wonderful father. (see picture at left)
Sam finished 6th grade and we headed
for southern Utah
and the canyons. Bryce
Canyon
is AMAZING! We did the scenic drive thing with all the photo stops, we
went on
a fabulous hike where I discovered a newly honed vertigo. (I’m told it
sometimes develops with menopause. One more hormonal thing. Lovely.)
Not a good
thing to have when on the edge of cliffs. Sam & I took a horseback
ride
along the rim & we were the only two in the group, making it a
private ride
for me and Sam. The next group had 12 & the next after that had 23.
Pays to
get up early. Cooler temperatures too. It was in the high 90's most
days.
We drove
Scenic Highway 12 to Boulder
Utah.
It's called the All
American Road.
Again, spectacular scenery. We went to Kodachrome Basin
State Park
(how could the
photographer pass this one?) We went on a hike in the Grand Staircase-Escalante National
Monument through
Slot Canyons. WOW! I had never even heard of slots before. They are
narrow
canyons of incredible beauty. At times, they are so close you can touch
both
sides. There is a trickle of a river that passes through. Slots are a
prime
flash flood area so you have to be very aware of the weather before
hiking
them. June is mostly a safe time. July/August is more chancy.
Then there was the car trouble. dum
da dum dummm. It was
bothering Leon
the drive down. He had a few things checked at a local service station
but it
didn't help. So off to Cedar City, seven hours, two axles, one sensor
&
about $800 later we were on our way. Since we were so close now, we
splurged
& stayed at the one suite available at the Zion Lodge in Zion National Park.
It was situated in the canyon surrounded by cliffs. The deer were so
comfortable around people they came & fed on the lawn in the
evening. We
only had the next day, then we were driving back to Bryce to get our
tent
trailer & go home the following day. Cars aren't allowed on the Zion scenic
drive so onto
the shuttle we went. We planned to hike the slots. Zion calls them "The Narrows." So
we took the shuttle to that stop, hiked the Riverside Walk where the
trail to
"The Narrows" begins. Lo & behold, before us flows a river. Leon
didn't
want to cross the way he was dressed. So, we set up a rendezvous time
&
place and Sam & I went off to hike "The Narrows" & Leon
went to
stop at all the shuttle stops & photograph to his heart's content.
My, my, my. Were Sam & I in for
a surprise! We didn't
have to just cross the river. We had to follow the river the entire
way.
Sometimes there were dry places & it was necessary to cross from
side to
side; always looking for the most shallow points. At one place there
were no
shallows. We just had to wade, the high point was just below my boobies.
Higher on Sam.
Although he was sprouting, he hadn't caught up to me yet. I don't know
what we
would have done without our walking sticks! By the time we returned; we
hiked
for about 3 hours; my left arm muscles were quite tender. Sam's walking
stick
arm was sunburned painfully because 12-almost 13-year-old boys know
better than
their mothers. "I don't need sunscreen Mom, I don't burn, I tan."
Right.
We met Leon
back at the Lodge, only 15 minutes late; joyously exhausted from
fighting the
river & reveling in the canyon's beauty. We decided not to try to
see more
because we could not begin to do the canyon justice. We would have to
make it
another trip. Sam & I went souvenir hunting, got something to eat,
&
then back on the road. Of course, nothing is that easy. The first part
of the
80 mile drive back to Bryce Canyon was still in Zion Canyon.
Every turn of the road brought a vista better than the one before. Out
came the
camera!
We also went camping near Riggins to
our favorite places on
the river and up in the mountains. Wonderful as always. And we had
visits from
Jim, John, Beth and Bill throughout the year.
As the summer was drawing to a
close, my dear friend Linda,
in Virginia,
suffered a massive heart attack. A complete surprise and finally
determined to
be the result of radiation treatment from her breast cancer many years
ago
weakening the heart.
Breast cancer touched me again
through my sister, Joan, in
the fall. Stage one cancer was detected and treated. Treatment
continues with
an excellent prognosis. Joan is incredibly optimistic and strong. She
has
continually amazed everyone with her attitude.
With breast cancer taking it’s toll
on the lives of three
women in my life this year, I urge each of you to go to
http://www.thebreastcancersite.com.
Sign up for daily email reminders to click. The email contains a link
and all
you have to do is click. Takes about 10 seconds in all. And many women
benefit
from this simple act.
Sam began a new
school this fall, there are only about 65
students; all 7th graders; in the school. Next year there will be 7th
and 8th
grade with a maximum of 150 students. Sam is loving it. Small classes,
the
teachers are wonderful, lots of different teaching methods. It’s
working out
wonderfully for him.
Lin, Jannette and all the Shermans
came for a visit. It was
lots of fun but again, too quick. They had a good visit with Grandma
Goodman.
She had no idea who they were, but that’s the nature of Alzheimer's .
It’s good
for the kids to see their great-grandmother while she is still living.
Uncle Philip died mid-November. I
probably had the
opportunity to spend the most time with him, out of all my uncles.
Uncle Philip
had a unique sense of humor and perspective on the world. Again, at 72,
too
young. I will miss him.
Then we come to Christmas. Many of
you know this is my
favorite time of year. As I have been reminded of my mortality this
year, my
testimony of the atonement of Jesus Christ has grown.
A wise man, Pres. Gordon B.
Hinckley, said: “Christmas means
giving. The Father gave his Son, and the Son gave his life. Without
giving
there is no true Christmas.. There is more to Christmas than neckties,
earrings, toys, and all the tinseled stuff of which we make so much.
“Christmas means eternity. As
certainly as Christ came into
the world, lived among men, laid down his life, and became the first
fruits of
the resurrection, so, through that atonement, all become partakers of
immortality. Death will come, but death has been robbed of its sting,
and the
grave of its victory.
“I am the resurrection, and the
life: he that believeth in
me, though he were dead, yet shall he live:
“And whosoever liveth and believeth
in me shall never die.”
John 11:25–26
“Let us live today knowing that we
shall live forever. Let
us live with the conviction that whatever principle of intelligence and
beauty
and truth and goodness we make a part of our life here, it will rise
with us in
the resurrection.
“He whose birth we commemorate this
season is more than the
symbol of a holiday. He is the Son of God, the Creator of the earth,
the
Jehovah of the Old Testament, the fulfillment of the Law of Moses, the
Redeemer
of mankind, the King of Kings, the Prince of Peace.”
I cannot say it any better then he
has said. My best wishes
are with you for Christmas and 2007. I miss you, and hope that perhaps,
a trip
to Boise
is in
your future. We’d love to see you!
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